Thinking about your first solo trip? For many, gay solo holidays offer more than just a break from the everyday. They’re a chance to explore new places, discover more about yourself, and connect with people who see and celebrate you as you are.

At Wide Awake Holidays, we believe that sometimes “gay friendly” just isn’t friendly enough. We’re a proudly gay-owned travel company based in the UK. Our personal travel service gives you access to a huge range of suppliers and trusted tour operators — and we tailor-make each holiday to suit you. Whether it’s your first trip alone or your tenth, we’re here to help you plan a safe, enjoyable, and memorable adventure.

Why Gay Solo Holidays Can Be Life-Changing

Travelling solo while openly LGBT+ is empowering. You set your own pace. You choose what matters most. And along the way, you meet people and visit places that can change your view of the world — and of yourself.

Many of our customers say their first gay solo trip gave them the confidence to travel more often. Some even made friends for life. Others found romance. And many just came home feeling more free, more themselves.

Wouldn’t it be great to feel that kind of freedom on your next holiday?

What Makes Great Gay Solo Holidays?

There’s no right or wrong answer here. Some people want the buzz of a big LGBT+ city. Others want quiet time in the countryside. For a great solo trip, it helps to have:

• A destination that’s welcoming and safe
• Accommodation where you feel relaxed being yourself
• A balance of things to do and time to unwind
• Opportunities to meet people if you want to

We help you find places that tick all those boxes. From small gay-run guesthouses in the UK to large resorts and cruises, we tailor everything to suit your needs.

Destinations to Consider for Your First Gay Solo Holiday

Let’s take a look at some brilliant options, whether you’re staying in the UK or heading abroad.

Brighton, UK – Classic Seaside with a Gay Twist

Brighton has long been a haven for the LGBT+ community. It’s relaxed, colourful, and full of life. There’s no need to hide who you are here.

Enjoy the beach, the lanes, and of course the bars and clubs in Kemptown. If you’re looking for something low-key, try a boutique guesthouse or book a wellness retreat by the sea.

Stay at Legends Hotel, located right on the seafront and close to the gay village.

Ask us about our latest deals for Brighton stays this season.

Sitges, Spain – Sun, Sea, and Social Vibes

Sitges is one of the most popular gay solo holidays spots in Europe. It’s just outside Barcelona but has its own unique charm. You’ll find stunning beaches, cool bars, and an international gay crowd.

It’s great for meeting people without feeling overwhelmed. Go during pride or one of the bear weeks if you want a more lively atmosphere.

Book a room at Hotel Medium Sitges Park, with a central location and tropical garden setting.

Let us check availability and deals for Sitges breaks that suit your travel dates.

Mykonos, Greece – Island Luxury with a Party Side

Mykonos mixes high-end style with a vibrant gay scene. From Elia Beach to JackieO’, there’s plenty to see and do. It’s a great choice if you want something luxurious but social.

It’s also easy to enjoy the island at your own pace. Relax during the day. Head out at night if the mood takes you.

Stay at Elysium Hotel, famous for its sunset views and gay-friendly vibe.

We’ve got exclusive deals on Mykonos accommodation—just ask for details.

London, UK – A City Break with Pride

London might feel close to home, but for many first-timers, it’s a perfect city for gay solo holidays. There’s a strong LGBT+ scene in Soho and Vauxhall. Plus, you’ll never run out of things to see and do.

From drag brunches to theatre shows, you can have a packed trip or take it easy. We’ll help you find the right balance.

Stay at The Z Hotel Soho for a smart, central base with everything nearby.

Want to stay in London? Ask us about our latest city hotel offers.

Cruises – Explore the World, One Port at a Time

Cruises are a great option for solo travellers. You get your own space but still have the chance to meet others in a relaxed setting. And if you’re LGBT+, there are even more reasons to choose cruising.

We’re members of Cruise Lines International Association and can book cruises with top names like Virgin Voyages, Royal Caribbean, Cunard, Celebrity Cruises, NCL, P&O Cruises, and more.

Plus, we can book exclusively gay cruises through Atlantis Cruises and RSVP Vacations, where the entire ship is full of like-minded travellers.

Want to combine freedom, fun, and travel in one trip? Cruises could be your perfect match.

Contact us for upcoming sailings and solo cruise deals.

Tips for First-Time Solo Travellers

We know it can feel a little daunting. Here are some practical tips to help you get started:

• Start with a destination that feels familiar or speaks your language
• Choose accommodation where you feel welcome and safe
• Have a rough plan, but leave room for spontaneous fun
• Bring headphones, a good book, or journal — solo time is powerful
• Join local LGBT+ tours or events if you want to meet people

Most of all, give yourself permission to relax and enjoy it.

What About Solo Travel in the UK?

Gay solo holidays don’t have to mean flying abroad. We offer short breaks and longer holidays right here in the UK. Think countryside cottages, coastal retreats, and gay-owned B&Bs where you’ll feel truly welcome.

Popular UK options include:

• Edinburgh – with its rich culture and buzzing gay scene
• Manchester – home to Canal Street and loads of nightlife
• Cornwall – for clifftop walks, cosy pubs, and boutique hotels

We work with a wide network of local hosts to make your UK solo break something special.

Tell us where you want to go, and we’ll sort the rest.

Jamie says: “Gay solo holidays offer something incredibly personal — a mix of freedom, self-discovery, and joy. We’ve helped hundreds of people plan their first trip, and the stories they come back with are amazing. No two travellers are the same, so we always build each journey around what matters most to you.”

Why Book Gay Solo Holidays with Wide Awake Holidays?

Here’s what sets us apart:

• We’re gay-owned and based in the UK — we understand your travel needs
• We don’t just offer ‘gay friendly’. We find places where you’re celebrated
• We’re part of Protected Trust Services, so your money is secure
• We work with handpicked suppliers, hotels, and cruise lines
• Every trip is tailor-made — no boring, one-size-fits-all packages

Whether you’re heading out solo for the first time or planning a new kind of adventure, we’re ready to help you do it your way.

Ready to Plan Your First Gay Solo Holidays?

There’s a big world out there, and it’s waiting for you to see it. From UK city breaks to full gay cruises, we’ll help you build a trip that’s safe, social, and 100% you.

Call us on 01495 400947 or use our holiday enquiry form to get started.

Let’s plan a trip you’ll always remember — for all the right reasons.